Find Yourself to Find Your Soulmate

Do you want to find your soulmate? Do you look for soulmate only to be met with disappointing relationships time and again? Are the confines of a relationship no longer enough for you?

Soulmates tend to find each other during their respective pursuits of their soul missions. Creating a soulmate could be seen as a spiritual reward that we give ourselves, after pursuing many soul contracts rife with discord.
~Linda Brady

It seems almost everyone, everywhere is looking for their soulmate.  We all have several, and sometimes many soulmates in our lives. Many of you are currently in, or have been, in a romantic soulmate relationship before. So, what were you doing when that soulmate came into your life?  Now we don’t mean sitting at a table in Starbucks slugging down a White Chocolate Mocha. It’s much deeper than that. What were you doing with your LIFE?


Find Yourself to Find Your Soulmate
Find Yourself to Find Your Soulmate

Were you sad, depressed and lonely from a recent relationship breakup? When you shuffled through Walmart to get the week’s groceries did you stare at the floor? Did you spend weekends wrapped up in a blanket, eating bonbons and watching Lifetime movies wishing you were the heroine?

Did you find bathing, washing your hair and other grooming essentials just too much effort because you were not in a relationship?  Have you just stop caring about yourself because you lost yourself somewhere along the way? Do you think this is the right energy to put out their to find your soulmate?


Or were you in a successful career that felt right to you? Were you enrolled in college, or a masters program, and really focused on yourself and your own aspirations? Had you already had several failed romantic relationships and currently taking a break to focus on yourself and your own life? Were you going through a period of solitude where you experienced tremendous expansion of your own psyche and spiritual growth? Had you come through a period of transformation, ready to embrace the world again? Were you full of life, smiling, happy and vibrant with the universal flow of energy within you?

If you’re hoping to find your soulmate you won’t find one while wandering listlessly through life, meandering from one weekend television marathon to the next. You have no direction. If you don’t take care of your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual bodies, a soulmate can’t enter your life.

You lack respect for yourself, so how can a romantic partner respect you? A soulmate relationship will not resolve your unhappiness, misery and despair. It will never work. If you’re not happy with yourself and who your are, there’s no way a soulmate partner can compliment you. You’re looking for them to complete you. That is not their job, but yours.

When you figure out who you are, and what you want in your life, then you are ready for a soulmate. You have to be happy with yourself first. You have to be at peace with who you are. Now we’re not saying you must have it all figured out. But you should at least be making some progress toward finding yourself and knowing who you are.  There are more tips and guidelines for what you should be doing with your life to find your soulmate in our article When Will I Meet My Soulmate?


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