To Find Your Soulmate You Must First Find Yourself

Do you want to find your soulmate? Do you look for soulmate only to be met with disappointing relationships time and again? Is being without a soulmate relationship in your life making you feel frustrated and angry? You are not alone.

Soulmates tend to find each other during their respective pursuits of their soul missions. Creating a soulmate could be seen as a spiritual reward that we give ourselves, after pursuing many soul contracts rife with discord. ~Linda Brady

It seems almost everyone, everywhere is looking for their soulmate. We all have several, and sometimes many soulmates in our lives. Not all are romantic though.

Find Yourself to find your soulmate
Find Yourself to Find Your Soulmate

You can’t insist your soulmate enter your life right now. You can’t change divine timing. so you’re not in control of when a romantic soulmate will enter your life. Soulmates share a spiritual connection for a spiritual relationship. Check your ego and desire for control at the door. You can only do so much, so let go and leave it to the universe. It’s easier said than done, of course, we understand that.


What have you learned from your past relationships? How have you changed? Have you gone off course? Maybe you were in a successful career that felt right to you but gave it up. Perhaps you enrolled in college, or a masters program, but never finished it. The wrong relationships take us further away from our true selves. Now is the time for transformation. Get back to who you were and create new aspirations and goals.

Take a break from relationships to focus on yourself and your own life. Become the person you always wanted to be. Do all of the things you put on the back burner. Get back on your true life’s path.

This creates opportunities for your soulmate to enter your life.

Quite often that’s the most important thing you need to do. It’s not just about wanting a soulmate. It is about being on a spiritual journey. This creates tremendous expansion of your own psyche as well as personal and spiritual growth.

Soulmates have lessons to learn and growth to experience as a couple. These lessons and growth are tough. They take time and the connection is a catalyst for the change and for growth. However, if neither soulmate has taken the time to get on the right path, these lessons will be excruciating and take forever.

Without getting a true sense of self and letting go of baggage, you bring it into the soulmate relationship. Do you have trust issues because of a bad past relationship? Well, be prepared for them to get worse with your soulmate if you don’t get a grip on them now. What you don’t change beforehand presents itself in the soulmate relationship. It’s time to get this out of the way and save yourself the heartache.


Originally posted on 2012-02-25 @ 12:07 pm

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