What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined for life? … to strengthen each other…to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories. ~George Eliot

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Predestined Relationships and Soulmates

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Predestined Relationships and Soulmates

Many people believe in predestined relationships. But what exactly is a predestined relationship? Well we don’t believe predestined relationships exist. However, we do believe that destiny brings two people together through chance encounters, the crossing of paths or the aligning of the stars. While these may feel like chance encounters, serendipity or synchronicity, it is more so the karmic agreement you have with another soul. Before you were born, you and that soulmate decided that you would meet at a certain place and time because you had some things to work through together. So when we think of predestined relationship, it makes more sense to refer to agreements made with a soulmate for completion of a karmic task. That is the predestined part. There is never any guarantee it will turn into a relationship.

Some people believe soulmate relationships are predestined relationships that come with a guarantee for romantic success. And while this can be true in some cases, they don’t have the ability to see the full destiny of a relationship or its final outcome. Destiny most certainly plays a role when meeting someone who you might have never met under normal circumstances, for example. But destiny does not participate in how this relationship ultimately unfolds. Destiny has played its role by putting you both in the same place at the same time, but this does not indicate it is a predestined relationship. The chance encounter was predestined, but for the destiny to unfold, you much each make choices in your lives to support it. The Universe produces the connections, the free will we are all given determines where the relationship ultimately goes.

People who believe in predestined relationships might also believe the relationship will be full of roses and moonlight walks on the beach. Since destiny brought them together, that most certainly fate will kick in to make their predestined relationship the perfect romantic adventure. Destiny can only do so much; it won’t do all the work for you nor will it guarantee the quality of a relationship. So again while the opportunity to meet a romantic partner may be predestined by fates greater than yourselves, you much each individually do the work within the relationship. The two people involved in the relationship and their willingness to work together to build a happy healthy life produces a long-lasting partnership. If you believe in a set outcome for a predestined relationship, then what is the point of the actual dating process? Interesting food for thought.

If we consider that predestined relationships are defined before we are born, we must also agree that they will come with life lessons. As we have discussed in other blogs, many life lessons come through painful experiences, what has this predestined relationship come to teach you? Some of them can actually create wonderful relationships but unfortunately they can’t all be positive experiences. Destiny does not always bring us joyful events. Quite often destiny’s intervention is to learn a hard lesson. What happens when the going gets tough? The outcome of predestined relationships really relies on the partners and their willingness to work for a healthy happy relationship. Too often people drop the ball expecting fate and destiny to sustain their relationship when the need to do the work themselves to fulfill a life lesson.

If you believe that a relationship can be destined to work out, you also then must accept that some relationships may be destined to fail. You can’t have one without the other. Some predestined relationships, if the lesson is learned and is allowed to fail, leads the person to the right relationship for them. There have been countless people who have shared these experiences with us. For example, someone we will call “Mary” had what she believed was a predestined relationship turn into a complete disaster. No matter how hard she tried to make it work she hit obstacles and barriers that could not overcome. Their meeting was predestined and she believed that alone indicated the relationship would last. In truth, the relationship made her so miserable. She refused to throw in the towel, because she believed so strongly in the predestined relationship that just had to work out in the end. She was wrong. This relationship was predestined, but not for the reason Mary thought. Once she learned the lesson this predestined relationship provided, and let that relationship go, a better relationship entered her life. Looking back, she could see how the experience of the predestined relationship led her to the happy fulfilling relationship she is enjoying today. So in truth, this predestined relationship, although it failed, ultimately led her to a successful romantic partnership.

Destiny is not cupid. Destiny does not surround your relationship in a protective bubble to keep your relationship together forever. Predestined relationships allow us to take the opportunities we are given and make the best of them, regardless of the final outcome. The beginning of a relationship can be predestined, but you must all take responsibility for how the relationship unfolds.

What is your predestined relationship destined to be? What are you supposed to be learning, changing or doing in your current relationship to ensue the most positive outcome for you? Sarah and Sophia can provide clarity and insight into the specific purposes of predestined relationships in your lives.

Soulmate Relationships: Fated and Non-Fated

Soulmate relationships come with a certain amount of destiny and fate attached to them, but not all relationships are fated. When we speak of destiny and soulmates, it is indicated they come from that spiritual place of pre-destined meetings that you agreed to before birth. A fated relationship, such as a soulmate relationship, will shape your life by bringing experiences that you would not have had, if this person had not entered your life. In other words, if you did not have this fated meeting, your life path may very well have taken a different route.  When it is a fated relationship, the energy of it will be bigger than both of you, and it will unfold as the Universe wants it to.

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Soulmate Relationships: Fated and Non-Fated

When things are fated in your life, many people and beings conspire and are used to create that reality, and it is truly a cosmic experience. Soulmate relationships, and others you are meant to encounter in this lifetime, will enter your life no matter what you do. It is a concert being conducted by the Universe. When you have this experience you will see the flow of what seem like random events converge together to create the mystical experience that defines a fated relationship. When you are engaged with someone who is a fated relationship, whether that be a friendship or soulmate relationship, they will always make a big impact on your life and be part of your life for a long time.

We can also have relationships that are defined by non-fated meetings. These people come into our lives to teach us a lesson, for one particular reason or another, and then move on. As we have discussed in many other blogs, a soulmate relationship does not necessarily last a lifetime, as it could also only last for a season or a reason. And that reason is to teach you a life lesson about yourself that must be learned for your own personal growth, and then they move on. Even though we may have formed a strong emotional bond to that individual during the time the life lesson was in play, we must also realize that once that lesson has been assimilated into our psyche, it is time for us to let them go, thank them for the lesson and move on as best we can. And yes, we realize that moving on may be easier said than done, but that will also be part of the lesson.

So how exactly can you determine if a meeting is fated or non-fated? In a fated meeting, as mentioned above, the Universe is definitely moving things around to “force” a meeting and it will only happen through divine design. Here is an example: Lets say you have a trip planned but when you get to the airport, your flight is cancelled. Even though you had been looking forward to the trip for many months you wonder now if you will ever get there. Finally, two days later, you are on an outbound plane to your destination. Instead of having 12 days in your locale, you now only have 10, and so you must adjust your sight-seeing activities accordingly. It is very frustrating to you to redo your entire schedule because you still want to see everything. One day you end up being somewhere you were not supposed to be on that day. Actually you were supposed to be somewhere very far away from that spot, but because you adjusted your itinerary, you were there. And BOOM! you meet someone and it has a very mythical, mystical feel to it. You were not supposed to be there. That was not your plan. But the Universe, and greater powers that be, orchestrated that entire sequence of events so you would be there, at the right time and the right place. Pretty amazing isn’t it?

Remember, non-fated relationships are just as important to our personal growth as fated ones. Also consider that the Universe brings into our lives the people and events we need at that moment to inspire us and cause us to change. If you have been in a non-fated relationship, be grateful for the experience and the lesson that came with it because in some way that person touched your life.

You don’t have to go out there and look for these types of connections. When they are supposed to come into your life they will and there is not one thing you can do to encourage it along. Go out. Live your life. When things start to appear chaotic, like the cancellation of plans, etc., take a step back and wonder what is happening and allow the Divine to work in your life.

Soulmate Signs and Signals How to Recognize Your Soulmate

Soulmate signs and signals are the little indicators alerting you when you are with your soulmate. Many of you will just know when your soulmate comes into your life. From the moment of first meeting you recognize there is something special drawing the two of you together. Sparks fly and you feel the connection as it ignites within you. It is just a knowing, deep within your soul, that you are have found the partner you believe is ‘the one’. You feel as if you already know them. You feel as if you have known each other before. You can’t stop thinking about each other and spend a lot of time together. There is a lot of synchronicity in your lives making it appear as if you co-exited in a parallel universe. You just click. And you know it. In this new age we call it the soulmate connection. Before we used to call it love at first sight.

“But how will I know who my soul mate is?”
“By taking risks,” Wicca said to Brida. “By risking failure, disappointment, disillusion, but never-ceasing in your search for love. As long as you keep looking, you will triumph in the end.”
~Paul Coelho

For some people these little soulmate signs will not always be so obvious. They may only become evident when you begin to examine your romantic relationship on a deeper level. For those who don’t buy into the soulmate theory, they interpret soulmate signals as random happenings, or coincidences, in the relationship. For those of us “in the know”, these soulmate signals prove we have met our soulmate.

Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life.
~Richard Bach

What are some of the soulmate signs that allow you to recognize  your soulmate?

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Soulmate Signs and Signals How to Recognize Your Soulmate

  • If you feel a very strong connection to someone, a connection you have never quite felt before, it could be soulmate signs. This connection is spiritual, emotional, physical and intellectual and will be firing on several levels at once. It is not just about the physical connection even though the sex is great. Soulmate connections are about the two souls merging, so it is about the total connection between you. It will be intense and when you are together it will probably be one of the greatest energy exchanges you have ever had. When you are apart or broken up, the loss of that connection can be devastating.

 

  • If you feel and experience the same emotions and moods as your romantic partner, it is soulmate signs. We don’t usually form this kind of empathic connection to someone unless it is a soulmate. When there is a deep soulmate connection you will probably form an empathic bond to your soulmate, feeling and experiencing the same emotions, frustrations and even physical pain. For example, you went to work this morning in a great mood. You accomplished a lot of your tasks and were getting ready to go to lunch with some friends. Suddenly you are hit with a wave of sadness and you feel too depressed to leave the office. Later that evening your guy tells you he was very upset at lunchtime because his multimillion dollar deal fell through to his competitor.  You can find another article about the empathic soulmate connection at Soulmate Connection Both a Blessing and a Curse.

 

  • If you are being bombarded with constant reminders of your romantic partner, you are being hit with soulmate signs. Let’s say your guy drives a bright red Hyundai Veloster. Since this is Hyundai’s brand new model there are not  too many of them on the road. When you pull up to a stop light on your way to the gym, you notice one across from you. The license plate just happens to start with the number 523, which also happens to be your guys birth date.  You had a fight two days ago and have not spoken since then. The Universe is giving you a little nudge, a gentle reminder through soulmate signs, that the connection is still very much alive between you. They are validating the connection you share by throwing these little synchronicites in your path. Notice them. Acknowledge them. It is the personal hand of the Divine at work in your life.

 

  • Soulmate signs should also be realized when find yourself tolerating certain types of behavior from your romantic partner that you would not in a mundane relationship.  As we have mentioned many times, soulmate relationships are about personal and spiritual growth. You may have agreed to provide the lesson of unconditional love to your romantic partner because they have been hurt, time and again, in past romances. You may experience them pulling back to temper the speed of the relationship. Your guy may go quiet for weeks even though you have reached out to him several times. In all your past relationships, if someone blanked you like that, you would have told them to piss off. In a soulmate relationship, you allow yourself to be a bit more tolerant because you want to give this guy a bit more time to work through his issues. This is one of the more tricky soulmate signs, however, because it can be confused with a dysfunctional relationship. In this situation, you may not want to let go of the relationship because you believe you are soulmates when in actuality you are just holding on to a dysfunctional relationship.

 

  • If you felt comfortable, very at ease and safe with your romantic partner from the moment you met, soulmate signals are the cause. It may just feel right. It may just feel perfect. You feel as if you have known them forever. It won’t feel threatening. You will feel secure. You know this is where you are supposed to be.

These are all the soulmate signs that allow us to see if we are truly in a soulmate relationship. Soulmate relationships have a very dreamy quality to them because you will feel you are on Cloud Nine. But sometimes, these soulmate relationships can turn into your worst nightmare. If you can’t stop thinking about your guy, or gal, it could be a signal that you are with your soulmate. On the other hand, it could just be an indicator that you are infatuated with them.  If you are not sure how the read the soulmate signs, or wonder if your romantic partner is, in fact, your soulmate, a psychic soulmate reading can help you. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are both accurate soulmate psychics who specialize in soulmate and twin flame relationships. They will help you gain clarity for your situation, validate the soulmate signs, and steer you in the right direction for your soul’s evolution.

 

 

 

 

 

How Do I Know I Have Met My Soulmate

If you are really wondering and questioning whether or not you have met your romantic soulmate, especially if it is the person you are currently dating, chances are you have not. Out of all my years of experience with soulmates and soulmate readings, one thing stands firm… if you are in or have been in a romantic soulmate relationship, you will probably know it early on in the relationship. Actually you will probably know it at the point of meeting that soulmate because it will be an electrifying moment for both of you.

How Do I Know I Have Met My Soulmate

How Do I Know I Have Met My Soulmate

When soulmates meet on the earthly plane, it very often comes with a mystical, cosmic experience. There is an instant spark, a flare and immediate attraction between you. You each feel the intensity but probably in different ways. You may feel that they are the only person in the room while everyone else around you seems to melt away into a void because the energy in front of you is the only thing that matters at that time. Some people may like to call this ‘love at first time’ but esoterically it is a much deeper experience. It is the soul recognition between you reaching their check-point and saying to each other “Oh there you are, I have been looking for you and glad you finally found your way into my life. Let’s get this show on the road!” It is a feeling of coming home, a feeling as if you know this person already or that you have met before. And you have, just not in this life time.

There is a recognition on the soul level. Although you won’t be fully aware at the time, this often indicates a shared past life, time together on the other side or the soulmate contract or soulmate agreement you made with each other. Your ego will not be aware of these things at the time, however, because all you know in that moment is the intense attraction you feel to this person. More than likely you have shared many lifetimes together and there is a feeling of comfort and contentment in being in the presence of this energy that feels so familiar to you. And you can’t quite put your finger on it, but there is just something about them that resonates with your soul.  Of course, at the initial meeting, you have no idea of the karmic life lessons or changes that are about to manifest in your life as a result of meeting this person who will become a challenging karmic relationship, but you will find out in time.

The beginning of a soulmate relationship can be a whole lotta fun! You have so much in common, not things like grandmothers first names, but commonalities that are much more unique. Whatever it is, it will be something, and if it is not readily apparent, as you get to know each other your similarities will reveal themselves. You have long talks and spend hours on the phone going over all the connected pieces between you, you spend a lot of time together, you think each others thoughts and complete each others sentences and truly believe you have reached a state of perpetual bliss as you turn all your focus upon the one you perceive is “The One”. You have mind-blowing  tantric sex and you just can’t get enough of each other. You talk about the future, make plans for a future and do this really too early on in the relationship, but throwing caution to wind is ok in your mind in this situation because fate has brought you together and you are destined to be united. As a matter of fact you might even neglect a lot of other responsibilities and people in your life because the only thing that matters to you is the soulmate relationship and the ‘connection’.

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How do I know I have met my soulmate?

Now if it is not a romantic soulmate you are wondering about but a soulmate relationship with a friend, family member, co-worker or pet, those connections tend to develop over a longer period. When friends meet and form a strong bond it is usually a kindred spirit kind of connection because you share a lot of similarities in terms of background, belief structure, likes and dislikes and life in general. Over time though, as that friendship deepens and you become closer and more connected, it evolves into a soulmate friendship where you are able to feel each other and communicate telepathically. Friendship soulmate relationships are there you just may not realize it at immediate meeting.

If you wonder if your current romantic relationship is a soulmate connection you may want to consider a soulmate reading from a soulmate psychic who specializes in love, romance, relationships and soulmate issues.  Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are both experienced, ethical, accurate psychics who specialize in love, relationships and soulmates. Known for their integrity and easy manner, you will always receive honest answers to your soulmate questions as well as practical steps on how to improve the relationship or let go of it if it is time to move on. Soulmate relationships can be rewarding but they can also be very challenging and complicated. Sarah and Sophia will bring clarity for both you and your soulmate relationship during your soulmate reading and give you the answers you need for the ultimate evolution of your soul.

 

 

 

 

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