What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined for life? … to strengthen each other…to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories. ~George Eliot

Soulmate Separation Anxiety

Soulmate Depression: How To Survive

Soulmate depression is a lot like regular relationship depression. When things are not going well and chaos and drama are a part of daily life, it’s easy to understand why one would be in a state of depression. Of course you did not want things to get this bad. It sucks that you have tried everything you can think of to make your soulmate relationship better. It’s not fair that your soulmate left or refuses to deal with the strong connection the two of you share.

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Soulmate Depression: How To Survive

If your soulmate has ended your relationship your depression may be debilitating. So many soulmates take every argument to the extreme. One soulmate may make mountains out of mole hills and make all disagreements World War 3. The other soulmate may overact in their own way by thinking every time this happens they will break up and the relationship will be over. This cycle of behavior can easily bring on major depression.

When you allow your emotions to overwhelm you, which is easy in soulmate relationships, it is easy to fall into a state of soulmate depression. Creating an emotional distance from your own emotions is the best thing you can do. Take yourself out of what you feel and try to look at your relationship like an outsider would. Refrain from using the same old excuses to excuse yourself and your soulmate. Start speaking to yourself like a good friend would. Use though love. Use common sense. Use logic. Just stop using your emotions to make your decisions for you.

Something is not working on your end, and you have to find out what that is. Stop doing the same things looking for better results. That does not include just what you say and do towards your soulmate, but how you handle it within yourself internally. Stop with the melodrama. Stop letting your feelings take over all your thoughts. Stop worrying your relationship will be over or is over. Stop mourning the loss of your soulmate.

If you have broken up numerous times and got back together each time, what was the point of torturing yourself and going through soulmate depression when you didn’t have to? You went through it for nothing. It is time to come up with another way of handling your emotional triggers. If your soulmate has ended your relationship, the best thing you can do is allow yourself some time for healing. Don’t wallow in it, try to do what you can to distract yourself as best you can.

Look for something, anything, to bring yourself even a little bit of joy, even if it only lasts a minute or two. Don’t overeat, that will only make yourself feel worse when you are done and can contribute to the depression. Spend time with others, and don’t isolate yourself. If you must think of your soulmate, don’t focus on the wrong things. Wouldn’t it be more productive to think about what is right with the relationship, what they need (and you need) to change to make the relationship better if given another chance? Of course it would. Not all soulmates come back, but many, many do. Almost all soulmates have rough patches, and they can get through it. Do the best you can to draw your strength from the connection you have and use it to empower yourself going forward.

Soulmate Obsession: The Dark Side of a Soulmate Connection

Soulmate obsession is very real and sometimes that strong connection you feel for someone can transform to a darker place. When people finally meet their soulmate, their love for them can become an obsession. They feel so much, too soon, for their soulmate and desire the relationship move along quickly so they can get to what they perceive to be the finish line. They are so excited the one they searched and hoped for is finally a part of their life. Unfortunately, they didn’t anticipate all the chaos and upheaval that can come with a soulmate relationship.

When these problems arise, and more often than not they will, soulmate obsession can take over. If you have read our many articles, you will know that soulmates often have a break period, or full break-up, in their relationship. This break can be long or short, occur only once, or repeatedly. During these breaks one of the soulmates can become obsessed with their partners every breath, thought, feeling and action. They feel that if they have this information they will have some sort of power, instead of feeling powerless, to help get through the period of disconnect and make sure their soulmate has not found someone else.

Soulmate Obsession: The Dark Side of a Soulmate Connection

Soulmate Obsession: The Dark Side of a Soulmate Connection

They become more concerned with what is going on with their soulmate than what is transpiring in their own lives. Every little tidbit of information gleaned from social media, their friends or even stalking, they enhance and elaborate on with their imagination. This is not what the universe wants. The universe brings soulmates together to learn important life lessons and provide personal and spiritual growth. Are you stuck in a cycle of soulmate obsession wondering what they are doing and when they are coming back? Soulmate obsession can actually delay, or prevent altogether, the return of your soulmate because you are too focused on them rather than working on yourself.

Soulmate obsession is not relegated to waiting for a soulmate’s return. Many people become obsessed trying to find a soulmate. They feel they have waited forever and want to find them as quickly as possible, because they somehow feel incomplete without them. Every day an obsession with meeting a soulmate can grow exponentially and so does their disappointment and negativity. This obsession with “when will I meet my soul mate” doesn’t help anything. In actuality, it can hurt. How can you expect to attract your soul mate when you are sending out so much negativity? Since you are not in charge of when your soul mate shows up, why even focus on it? The universe will bring them in at the right time. That is their decision, not yours. So why try to take control over the universe by obsessing about your soulmate? If you believe in soulmates, and that there is one for you, let go of the “when”, because that is in the hands of destiny. Perhaps patience could be your lesson to learn?

The darkest part of soulmate obsession can occur when a soulmate ends a relationship. After being in an intense, super connected relationship with someone, you may find yourself at your lowest. As we mentioned, this is not the time to stalk their social media or try to discover everything going on their lives. This is the time for self-care where you truly focus on yourself. The emotional devastation that comes with losing a soulmate will take some time to heal. It is better to remove anything in your environment reminding you of your soulmate relationship and make a firm agreement with yourself to stay off the internet. Finding out what is going on in their life is not going to make you feel any better, it will only keep you stuck in the cycle of soulmate obsession. This is the time to spend time with friends and family who can nurture and support you, seek professional counseling to work through your loss or embark upon a journey of self-development.

The intensity of the connection between soulmates makes it easy to obsess. When the going gets bad, it is better to have faith in the connection that brought you together. It is the lack of faith in the connection between soulmates when soulmate obsession creeps in. Do your best to keep the faith.

You may also want to consider the following posts:

Soulmate Separation Anxiety

How Can I Meet My Soulmate

Dark Night of the Soul and Soulmate Relationships


Soulmate Limbo Sucks

Soulmate Limbo Sucks

Soulmate limbo is a very difficult place to exist. Actually being in any kind of relationship limbo sucks, but especially so when you are in limbo waiting for your soulmate to get their act together. You feel you can not move forward with your life, because you don’t know what your soulmate is doing in regard to your relationship. You will often find yourself in soulmate limbo when on you have not heard from your soulmate in a few weeks, or longer. You can also be stuck in soulmate limbo after a breakup, if you believe and truly know, your soulmate will come back to you.

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Soulmate Limbo Sucks

When you are stuck in soulmate limbo you have to focus your attention, attitude and energy on getting unstuck. For most soulmate relationships, this is easier said than done.  If you are in a relationship where the soulmate connection is strong, you may even find it quite painful to be in soulmate limbo.  Soulmate separation anxiety can become extreme when you are stuck in soulmate limbo because not only are you without your soulmate, you have no idea what the hell is going on with them. All attempts, on your part, to reach them have gone unanswered and they have obviously decided to ignore you. Ignoring someone is one of the rudest things they can do because it shows you how little you matter to them.

When we realize you are stuck in soulmate limbo, we have to ask you, what are you doing for yourself and for your life? Are you waiting for the phone to ring or text message to appear? Are you counting the days since the last communication wondering if you will ever hear from your guy again? Change your focus. Instead of focusing on him and what he may, or may not be doing, focus on yourself and what you should be doing.

Are you stuck in soulmate limbo because you need to learn your soulmate lessons? Very often we will see these relationships hit the limbo place because either one of your, or even both of you, are not working on what needs to be addressed for your own personal growth. Soulmate relationships are not always about growing together, although growing the relationship certainly does happen when you are sharing your time and energy together. And that will come again, once you are out of the limbo state.  Are you supposed to be learning something new? Are you supposed to be focused on a career change? Are you supposed to be focused on transforming a part of yourself, either physically or spiritually, that must happen before your relationship can get moving again?

Being stuck in soulmate limbo sucks. You have not heard from your soulmate and wonder if you will ever hear from them again. If your soulmate has ended you relationship, you may wonder if you will get back together. Each soulmate relationship is different and quite often a different tactic will be required to try to fix it. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are soulmate specialists with over fifty years combined experience helping people resolve their love and relationship issues. A soulmate reading will help see why you are stuck in soulmate limbo and what you can do, if anything, to release it.

How Can I Get My Soulmate Back?

One of the biggest searches we see on our stats for this page is “how can I get my soulmate back?” We hear you and we understand that after you have lost your soulmate it is a horrible lonely frustrating world. But why exactly do you need to get your soulmate back? A soulmate connection is not one that is created out of need, fear, or obsession. A soulmate relationship is not supported by an addiction to your soulmate.  Soulmate love is not based on the desire to control because you fear losing them and feel you will not be complete without them. You are lost without your soulmate and you don’t know what to do….but, you can not get your soulmate back until they are ready to come back.

If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don’t, they never were.
~Kahlil Gibran

There is nothing worse than having someone, or something, you really love with all your heart and then have it ripped away from you. It may be that another love interest entered the life of your soulmate, or a past love interest re-emerged. Perhaps your soulmate was promoted to a new position that took him to the other side of the country, or to the other side of the world. Maybe your soulmate had to resolve some personal issues that he could only address when he is by himself. Whatever the reason, your soulmate is gone, and you want him back. Furthermore, you are will to do anything to get him.

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How Can I Get My Soulmate Back?

We totally understand and empathize with your situation. The solution to every soulmate dilemma however is different. The way to fix your specific soulmate problem may be different from that of your best friend or anyone else. The solution to every soulmate relationship is different because the people in that relationship are all special and unique. What works for one may not necessarily work for another.This is when a soulmate reading with soulmate experts Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise will benefit you. Not only will they be able to provide honest, accurate predictions as to whether or not you and your soulmate will get back together, they will also give you the best guidance to help your specific situation.

If you are the type who likes to reach out to try to get your soulmate back, before you call, text, email, send flowers, smoke signals or naked photos of yourself, it is in your best interest to speak with us first.  Of course we realize you want to change the current dynamic because it leaves you feeling lonely, isolated and vulnerable. You want to fix it. You want to talk to him. You want to anything you can to make the situation change and get your soulmate back. Before wasting your time and energy, and possibly making the situation worse, a private consultation with Sarah or Sophia will reveal if you can get your soulmate back and clarify the right course of action you should take to provide the best possible outcome.

We gave you some details on Interfering with Your Soulmate’s Lessons and while trying to get your soulmate back is not necessarily interfering in his lessons, it more than likely is preventing you from addressing yours. If you are so focused on trying to win him back, there will be some valuable life lessons of your own you will probably miss. Is the life lesson to relinquish your control, or death grip, on the energy of the situation? Is the life lesson to step back and focus on yourself, if your romantic partner pulls away for a bit? If your relationship is ended, is it time for you to learn how to let go and move on to the next phase of your life?

Whatever the lesson is for you, the best course of action you should take for the most important person in this soulmate relationship, yourself. If you need to pay your bills, clean your house, get the oil changed in your car, mow the lawn, paint the walls and a hundred other things you have neglected while you have been plotting and planning how to win him back, your focus needs to be shifted.Whether your soulmate comes back to your or not, you need to keep your own life running as best you can. This will ensure that regardless of his actions, your life is still where it is supposed to be.


When Your Soulmate Leaves

When Your Soulmate Leaves

When your soulmate leaves your life it can leave you feeling lost, confused and helpless. The loss or breakup of any relationship is painful, but the loss of your soulmate can be devastating and difficult to work through. When your soulmate leaves your life, it can be for any number of reasons including: 1) exercising free will to end the relationship 2) termination of the soulmate contract between you and 3) taking an exit to leave the planet (pass away).

None of these reasons are easier or more difficult to work through that the others though because when your soulmate leaves your life it feels as if part of you is dying. There will be many days of despair, resentment, sadness and possibly even anger directed at or toward God, or the Divine. Before you allow yourself to drop into the pit of self loathing by wondering what you did or said to make them leave, please remember that there is more than likely a reason for their departure. It may not make any sense to you at the moment, and may in fact take months or years to understand. But in retrospect you will have the clarity you need to understand why they walked out of your life.

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When a Soulmate Leaves

There are many reasons soulmates can walk out of your life. One the biggest reasons soulmates take off is what I will call the Fear Factor. A soulmate relationship will come with very close emotional intimacy. In the beginning it feels incredible to both of you but as time goes on, one of you could become quite fearful of the connection. To have that close a bond to another human being, who will probably come to know you better than you know yourself, can make the hearitest of souls feel vulnerable. Others could fear the loss of control. When you are that closely tied to someone who knows everything about you, to whom you have let down your guard, some can feel they are relinquishing control. To some folks, this can be quite threatening (although it really isn’t it is just their own inner insecurities that create it). Furthermore a soulmate could exit your life simply because they have decided to exercise their god given free will and just do not want to be in the relationship anymore. A soulmate can also decide if they wish to terminate their soulmate contract and move their life in a different direction. There are many more reasons why a soulmate can leave. They may not even know why they are leaving. They just may have an urging within them to take a different path, which is their higher self, their soul, speaking to them to work on their own individual life lessons.  Regardless of the situation, you will have to put the pieces of your life back together.

After the tears, chocolates, tubs of ice cream and glasses, if not bottles, of wine, it is time to pull yourself together and move on with your life. How can you do that when you are suffering so much turmoil? You just have to put on your big girl (or big boy) pants and take back your power. We are not saying this will be easy, but millions of people throughout the centuries, have had this same experience. One of the first things you will want to do is detach your energy from your missing soulmate. We give you guidelines for doing this in our article,Breaking the Soulmate Connection. This is a good time to be gentle with yourself and honor your soul through the healing time. It will not happen overnight, so please don’t expect it to.

When your soulmate leaves it can be permanent, but it can also be for just a period of time. More often than not this is what we see over and over again in most soulmate relationships. During this period of separation you are each tasked with the challenge of learning valuable life lessons that, when your relationship reunites, will provide the growth you need to have a more successful relationship.

We have written many great articles to help you deal with this separation with what we call Soulmate Separation Anxiety.

When your soulmate leaves you it can create one of the most horrible emotional upheavals that anyone has to deal with. You may not want to walk this path alone. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are soulmate, twinflame experts who specialize in love and relationship issues. With over 50 years combined experience giving soulmate readings, they are the top in their field. They will be able to see if your soulmate breakup is permanent or if the two of you will be reuniting. If your soulmate breakup is permanent they will help you walk through the dark night of the soul which will most certainly come with that ending. They will guide you back to the light of day. If your soulmate relationship is coming back together, they will provide guidance to help you get through the limbo time and encourage you to focus on yourself. If you would like guidance from them, you can arrange a call with them using either the Ether or Click4Advisor services. They are here to support and guide you if and when your soulmate leaves your life.



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