What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined for life? … to strengthen each other…to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories. ~George Eliot

Karmic Relationships

Predestined Relationships and Soulmates

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Predestined Relationships and Soulmates

Many people believe in predestined relationships. But what exactly is a predestined relationship? Well we don’t believe predestined relationships exist. However, we do believe that destiny brings two people together through chance encounters, the crossing of paths or the aligning of the stars. While these may feel like chance encounters, serendipity or synchronicity, it is more so the karmic agreement you have with another soul. Before you were born, you and that soulmate decided that you would meet at a certain place and time because you had some things to work through together. So when we think of predestined relationship, it makes more sense to refer to agreements made with a soulmate for completion of a karmic task. That is the predestined part. There is never any guarantee it will turn into a relationship.

Some people believe soulmate relationships are predestined relationships that come with a guarantee for romantic success. And while this can be true in some cases, they don’t have the ability to see the full destiny of a relationship or its final outcome. Destiny most certainly plays a role when meeting someone who you might have never met under normal circumstances, for example. But destiny does not participate in how this relationship ultimately unfolds. Destiny has played its role by putting you both in the same place at the same time, but this does not indicate it is a predestined relationship. The chance encounter was predestined, but for the destiny to unfold, you much each make choices in your lives to support it. The Universe produces the connections, the free will we are all given determines where the relationship ultimately goes.

People who believe in predestined relationships might also believe the relationship will be full of roses and moonlight walks on the beach. Since destiny brought them together, that most certainly fate will kick in to make their predestined relationship the perfect romantic adventure. Destiny can only do so much; it won’t do all the work for you nor will it guarantee the quality of a relationship. So again while the opportunity to meet a romantic partner may be predestined by fates greater than yourselves, you much each individually do the work within the relationship. The two people involved in the relationship and their willingness to work together to build a happy healthy life produces a long-lasting partnership. If you believe in a set outcome for a predestined relationship, then what is the point of the actual dating process? Interesting food for thought.

If we consider that predestined relationships are defined before we are born, we must also agree that they will come with life lessons. As we have discussed in other blogs, many life lessons come through painful experiences, what has this predestined relationship come to teach you? Some of them can actually create wonderful relationships but unfortunately they can’t all be positive experiences. Destiny does not always bring us joyful events. Quite often destiny’s intervention is to learn a hard lesson. What happens when the going gets tough? The outcome of predestined relationships really relies on the partners and their willingness to work for a healthy happy relationship. Too often people drop the ball expecting fate and destiny to sustain their relationship when the need to do the work themselves to fulfill a life lesson.

If you believe that a relationship can be destined to work out, you also then must accept that some relationships may be destined to fail. You can’t have one without the other. Some predestined relationships, if the lesson is learned and is allowed to fail, leads the person to the right relationship for them. There have been countless people who have shared these experiences with us. For example, someone we will call “Mary” had what she believed was a predestined relationship turn into a complete disaster. No matter how hard she tried to make it work she hit obstacles and barriers that could not overcome. Their meeting was predestined and she believed that alone indicated the relationship would last. In truth, the relationship made her so miserable. She refused to throw in the towel, because she believed so strongly in the predestined relationship that just had to work out in the end. She was wrong. This relationship was predestined, but not for the reason Mary thought. Once she learned the lesson this predestined relationship provided, and let that relationship go, a better relationship entered her life. Looking back, she could see how the experience of the predestined relationship led her to the happy fulfilling relationship she is enjoying today. So in truth, this predestined relationship, although it failed, ultimately led her to a successful romantic partnership.

Destiny is not cupid. Destiny does not surround your relationship in a protective bubble to keep your relationship together forever. Predestined relationships allow us to take the opportunities we are given and make the best of them, regardless of the final outcome. The beginning of a relationship can be predestined, but you must all take responsibility for how the relationship unfolds.

What is your predestined relationship destined to be? What are you supposed to be learning, changing or doing in your current relationship to ensue the most positive outcome for you? Sarah and Sophia can provide clarity and insight into the specific purposes of predestined relationships in your lives.

Relationship Karma : What Have You Learned?

Relationship Karma What Have you Learned?

Relationship karma is something we each carry with us in just about every relationship we have. Relationship karma can be found in the relationships we have with family, friends, co-workers, the Starbuck’s barista as well as all your romantic relationships. Not every relationship will have karma and not every relationship is karmic but we will learn fundamental lessons in life by engaging in relationships with karmic connections and soulmates. You might also want to check out our blog that details the difference between a karmic and soulmate relationships Karmic Relationships vs Soulmate Relationships.

When someone has a strong intuitive connection, Buddhism suggests that it’s because of karma, some past connection. ~~Richard Gere

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Relationship Karma


Many people believe that karma is punishment for past actions but the karma police are not going to come and get you and turn you into an earthworm in your next life, for any misdeeds you commit. The purpose of karma is to teach, not to punish. But what exactly is karma? It is a Sanskrit word for action and the universal law of cause and effect that says everything we do and say carries energy into the world that effects our present reality. Every action, has a reaction. In other words, every word we speak, decision we make and action we take creates and energetic imprint on our life. We create our reality from those thoughts, words and deeds. Additionally karma is connected to our life blueprint and the soulmate contracts we have with the collective soulmates we have in our lives. This of course will include life lessons and both the spiritual and personal growth we need to evolve as humans on the planet.


Karma, ahhh. We sow what we reap… We reap what we sow! We reap what we sow. The law of cause and effect. And we are all under this law. ~~ Nina Hagen

If the purpose of karma is to teach, the purpose of relationship karma is to teach you about relationships. Relationship karma is the amalgamation of the experiences, lessons, dramas and traumas we incur through the process of being in a romantic relationship with a soulmate, in both the current and past lifetimes. The scenarios are being played out by the two of you, over and over, until you get it right. Some of these experiences will be positive and of course some will be negative. Unfortunately we silly humans learn best through the negative life lessons because essentially we are learning that we never want to go through or have that experience again. We move beyond and past it. On the bright side, the assimilation of these are the very ones we need to define our character and make us better relationship partners.

When you have relationship karma with someone, simply put, the karma and life lessons must be played out. If they are not, you will either 1) have that same lesson with someone else or 2) have it with this same soulmate during a later incarnation. It is how the wheel of life works. And you have a choice as to whether or not you want to continue to experience the karma with a specific person in your lifetime. If it becomes more than you want to deal with, you could exercise your right of free will and say “Adios, catch ya next time around”. The choice really is up to you and how much you are willing to sacrifice and endure to be with someone who is not stepping up to the plate. Is it practical to stay with someone who does not make you feel valued or love because you have some karmic debt with them? This is a choice you will have to make.

Karma moves in two directions. If we act virtuously, the seed we plant will result in happiness. If we act non-virtuously, suffering results. ~~ Sakyong Mipham



Could Some Soulmate Connections be BAD for You?

Could Some Soulmate Connections be BAD for You?

Some soulmate connections could be ‘bad’ for you if you are unable to discern the ones you need to avoid. There is a common misconception that all soulmate connections are good and that you will live happily ever after. Of course it would be great if this were true, but unfortunately this is not the case. On the other hand, soulmate connections are to teach us things about ourselves and present opportunities for spiritual and personal growth.   Here are some examples of when when soulmate connections could quite possibly be bad for you, or just plain bad.

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Could Some Soulmate Connections be Bad for You?

  1. If you find yourself in a relationship with someone who is overbearing, rude, abusive, disrespectful and unwilling to change, this could possibly be a bad soulmate connection. But how can you know for sure? If things were great in the beginning (they always are by the way) but after the first two months his behavior changed for the worst, it might be time to assess this relationship. How does this relationship make you feel? Do you feel you have given away your power to this relationship but feel you need to hang in there because things were so great in the beginning? Is your soulmate willing to discuss this and make the changes needed to improve your relationship? If not, you could be experiencing one of the bad soulmate connections.
  2. You may feel you have a soulmate connection to someone but this does not always mean they feel the same. When you feel a soulmate connection to someone who does not reciprocate, you are trying to turn the relationship into something more than what it really is. You may both feel a very strong, intense connection to each other, especially sexually, but this does not always indicate it is a true soulmate relationship. If you are not both in agreement that this is a true soulmate connection, you might end up really hurt from having unrealistic expectations from this relationship. If he views your relationship as nothing more than a booty call, you could very well be stuck in a bad soulmate connection situation. You may feel the connection and have deep feelings for him, but in reality, you expectations for this person and this relationship could be very much off course.
  3. Another example of soulmate connections that could be bad for you is when your soulmate is married to someone else. Your married soulmate may tell you he will end his marriage when in reality he no intention of divorce. Even though the connection is so intense between the two of you (again, especially sexually) he may be too ingrained in his life with his wife. It is not that he does not love you nor see you as a soulmate partner, he could just not be willing to create upheaval in his life at the moment. Unless you are comfortable being someone’s mistress or willing to be considered ‘second’ in their life, this particular soulmate connection could be bad for you. Please see our blog When Your Soulmate is Married to Someone Else.
  4. Soulmate connections that take over you entire life could potentially be bad for you. Whenever you meet a soulmate it is normal to want to spend as much time with them as you can. This is totally understandable. But if you spend so much time with your soulmate, thinking about your soulmate, planning dates with your soulmate and fantasizing about your future with your soulmate, but allowing everything else in your life to fall by the wayside, this is probably not good for you. Likewise, if you soulmate partner insists that you spend all your free time with him, his family and his friends and you have not seen your family and friends in months, or years, this is quite possibly another example of soulmate connections gone bad.

We are not saying that these soulmate connections could ruin your life but we would like you to consider how your soulmate relationship is affecting you and the rest of your life. If you are feeling harmonious in you day to day life, all is well, but if you are questioning or wondering if something is wrong, you may want to consider assessing your life and relationship.

It is also important to consider that perhaps bad soulmate connections are not soulmate relationships at all. They could be karmic relationships that you have allowed yourself to believe is a soulmate relationship. Karmic relationships, as well as soulmate relationships, are in your life to cause you to evaluate an aspect of your life or your relationship, that needs addressing and probably modifying.   Karmic relationships have a tendency to highlight the areas of our lives that need work allowing us to have personal and often spiritual transformation. After all, that is why we are all here.

Surprise, You Have More Than One Soulmate!

Surprise, You Have More Than One Soulmate!

Many of you wonder why you have more than one soulmate relationship. Not everyone has more than one soulmate relationship, but the majority of us do. For the majority of people, our lives are a progression of relationships. Some of those relationships are clearly defined as a soulmate relationship and others more mundane. There is, however, a purpose for every relationship we have in our lives, even if those relationships are not with soulmates.

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You Have More Than One Soulmate

We are here on Earth to learn and grow. Our lives here, while we are in physical form, is for the ultimate perfection of our soul. We can only accomplish that through relationships because relationships are how we learn and grow. While we are in the relationship, and the relationship flowing well, we are happy, content and in love. When we are at our happiest, it does not afford us the greatest potential for spiritual growth. It is the trials and tribulations of those relationships, but more specifically soulmate relationships, that create the growth we need to expand our lives. Very often our growth comes from the devastating loss of a soulmate relationship and how we deal, manage and work through that loss. For most of us, we have no choice but to grow and learn from that experience.

And that is exactly why we have more than one soulmate. If we are to expand our character and consciousness from these soulmate relationships, it will often take more than one soulmate to create that growth. For example, you have a soulmate relationship when you are twenty-five years old and you really believe he is the one. After eight months, however, he ends the relationship. You are thrown into a downward spiral of doom and gloom and are convinced you will never love again because it is just too painful. After several months of tears and having a relationship with Ben and Jerry, you start meditating and practicing yoga to help manage the hurt, loss and betrayal. Right there your personal growth has occurred. Would you have taken up the meditation and yoga if he had not dumped you? Maybe, maybe not, actually, more than likely not because you were too focused on him and the relationship. Then one day during your yoga class you meet a guy who is very spiritual, who has a strong yoga and meditation practice and your next soulmate relationship begins. You marry this guy and live happily ever after, but you would not have met him if you did not have more than one soulmate.

We have more than one soulmate because our lives are a series of lessons we learned from our relationships. Does this mean everyone has more than one soulmate? Absolutely not! There are those who will only have one during their lifetime. These are very unique relationships as you stay together for its entirety, both learning your life lessons as part of the relationship. When we are connected to one soulmate for the entirety of our lives, that soulmate relationship is a twin flame relationship. June Carter and Johnny Cash were lucky enough to have this type of relationship. It was a battle to get to the relationship, and Johnny tried for many years until June said yes, but when she did, their love lasted the rest of their lives. You can read the twin flame love story of June Carter and Johnny Cash here.

Some of you may be dismayed that you have more than one soulmate. Please don’t allow this to worry you. When you can step out of your emotion and look at the situation it is truly is, that the synchronicity of the Universe it working in our lives, it makes sense that we have more than one soulmate. We really should consider it luck. We have multiple opportunities to get it right as well as more opportunities for spiritual growth. After all, that is the reason we are all here.

Do you wonder if you have more than one soulmate? Are you currently in a soulmate relationship and need to know if this is it? Have you had a series of soulmate relationships, learned from them and are curious if you will finally meet a twin flame life partner? Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are soulmate twin flame specialists who are here to guide you on your way to soulmate success. Soulmate relationships are never easy, even though we would like them to be. The things that cause personal and spiritual growth never are. If you need guidance with your soulmate relationship, need to know if you will have more than one soulmate or if you are just looking for a soulmate life partner, give them a call. They are known love and relationship experts who can bring clarity ot all your relationship and soulmate concerns.

When You Can’t Find Your Soulmate

So you want to find your soulmate? Why haven’t you found them yet? What must you do to find your soulmate? We are here to help you find your soulmate!  When speaking with our clients we realize many of you have either spent a lot of time alone or been in one relationship after another that did not work out. So many of you want to know what specific reason may stop your from finding your soulmate as well as what steps your must take to find your soulmate partner. You have come to the right place!

More often than not, we discover that many of your are getting in the way of finding your soulmate.  Now we are not saying it is all your fault if you have not found your soulmate, but you can actually create blocks and delays preventing the real soulmate relationship from entering your life.

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When You Can’t Find Your Soulmate

If you waste your time with the wrong people, and in the wrong relationships, you definitely put your energy and effort into making a relationship work with Mr. Wrong. Wouldn’t it be better to free yourself to find Mr. Right, who has a greater potential to be your soulmate?. How can the universe, or the Divine, bring you your soulmate when you are so caught up in a dysfunctional relationship? In many cases, they won’t. Sometimes though, the universe will throw your soulmate into your life when you are involved with the wrong person to help you end it once and for all. In this way, your soulmate would serve as the catalyst you so need in your life to create the change you need to move forward with your life.

You could be mistaking the wrong person for your soulmate. Sometimes our desire to be with this wrong person is so great, because we feel a connection to them, that we can mistakenly believe they are soulmate partners. In these situations, we should all run for the hills. There is however, a reason for this ‘wrong person’ relationship for being in your life. This karmic relationship is designed to teach and show you this is not where you are supposed to be.

If you are looking for the wrong things in a partner, this call also keep you from finding your soulmate. If your main criteria are that he is rich, handsome, and drives a nice car, you may be putting obstacles in the way of meeting your soulmate. Your soulmate can be handsome, have money and drive a nice car. Then again, he may not. Do you want to settle down with someone who can give you the finer things in life, or would you rather find your soulmate? If so, you may have to forgo some of your other criteria and accept them as they are.

You may not believe soulmates actually exist. Of course your opinion will change when you do find him. If you are not open to connecting with your soulmate, the universe may put him “on hold” until you are. What is the point in bringing a soulmate relationship into your life if you are not ready for it?
If you really want to find your soulmate, do what you can to help bring him into your life, instead of creating obstacles for them. For further reading please check out When Will I Meet My Soulmate?   and Find Yourself..Find your Soulmate.
If you are wondering why you can’t find your soulmate or why your romantic soulmate has not entered your life, a psychic reading with Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise will give you the reasons why. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are both 5-star soulmate psychics who specialize in love and relationships. They will be able to work with you to identify the blockages and obstacles preventing you from finding your true soulmate partner. They will also be able to help you identify whether or not your current romantic partner is a soulmate relationship and help you work through whatever issues you may be encountering there. Their goal is to empower you, not enable you to stay stuck in a situation that is not longer serving you or supporting your romantic goals and desires.


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