One of the biggest searches we see on our stats for this page is “how can I get my soulmate back?” We hear you and we understand that after you have lost your soulmate it is a horrible lonely frustrating world. But why exactly do you need to get your soulmate back? A soulmate connection is not one that is created out of need, fear, or obsession. A soulmate relationship is not supported by an addiction to your soulmate. Soulmate love is not based on the desire to control because you fear losing them and feel you will not be complete without them. You are lost without your soulmate and you don’t know what to do….but, you can not get your soulmate back until they are ready to come back.
If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don’t, they never were.
There is nothing worse than having someone, or something, you really love with all your heart and then have it ripped away from you. It may be that another love interest entered the life of your soulmate, or a past love interest re-emerged. Perhaps your soulmate was promoted to a new position that took him to the other side of the country, or to the other side of the world. Maybe your soulmate had to resolve some personal issues that he could only address when he is by himself. Whatever the reason, your soulmate is gone, and you want him back. Furthermore, you are will to do anything to get him.
We totally understand and empathize with your situation. The solution to every soulmate dilemma however is different. The way to fix your specific soulmate problem may be different from that of your best friend or anyone else. The solution to every soulmate relationship is different because the people in that relationship are all special and unique. What works for one may not necessarily work for another.This is when a soulmate reading with soulmate experts Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise will benefit you. Not only will they be able to provide honest, accurate predictions as to whether or not you and your soulmate will get back together, they will also give you the best guidance to help your specific situation.
If you are the type who likes to reach out to try to get your soulmate back, before you call, text, email, send flowers, smoke signals or naked photos of yourself, it is in your best interest to speak with us first. Of course we realize you want to change the current dynamic because it leaves you feeling lonely, isolated and vulnerable. You want to fix it. You want to talk to him. You want to anything you can to make the situation change and get your soulmate back. Before wasting your time and energy, and possibly making the situation worse, a private consultation with Sarah or Sophia will reveal if you can get your soulmate back and clarify the right course of action you should take to provide the best possible outcome.
We gave you some details on Interfering with Your Soulmate’s Lessons and while trying to get your soulmate back is not necessarily interfering in his lessons, it more than likely is preventing you from addressing yours. If you are so focused on trying to win him back, there will be some valuable life lessons of your own you will probably miss. Is the life lesson to relinquish your control, or death grip, on the energy of the situation? Is the life lesson to step back and focus on yourself, if your romantic partner pulls away for a bit? If your relationship is ended, is it time for you to learn how to let go and move on to the next phase of your life?
Whatever the lesson is for you, the best course of action you should take for the most important person in this soulmate relationship, yourself. If you need to pay your bills, clean your house, get the oil changed in your car, mow the lawn, paint the walls and a hundred other things you have neglected while you have been plotting and planning how to win him back, your focus needs to be shifted.Whether your soulmate comes back to your or not, you need to keep your own life running as best you can. This will ensure that regardless of his actions, your life is still where it is supposed to be.
Do Soulmate Relationships End?
Do soulmate relationships end? Soulmate relationships do not really end but they can and will change and transform into a different type of relationship within both the current lifetime and lifetimes to come. When we are talking about soulmates, in the true sense of the word, the relationship is endless. A soulmate relationship is eternal, and soulmates will incarnate with each other over and over again in an effort to attain the life lessons they have with one another. But.. do they really.. do soulmate relationships end?
The true nature of a soulmate relationship is a karmic one and during a soulmate reading we can very quickly tune into the soulmate contract and karmic nature of your relationship. When we have karmic relationships, whether they be kindred spirit relationships, soulmate relationships or twin flame relationships, we are called to learn and grow from that relationship in an effort to produce a soul evolution. We revisit these same relationships lifetime after lifetime to ensure the growth is there. This is why, when you meet a soulmate, but more specifically a romantic soulmate, you have that feeling of instant attraction, love at first sight or the sense you have known this person before. Actually you have known them before just not in this lifetime. It is a past life recognition or soul level recognition that creates that feeling or connection when you meet a soulmate.
Since you incarnate with these same souls who are really members from your soul family over and over again the soulmate relationship is truly endless. You may be in a romantic relationship with them in this lifetime but that does not indicate you will always manifest as romantic soulmates, life after life. You may be brother – sister soulmates in one lifetime, mother – son soulmates the next lifetime or teacher – student soulmates in another lifetime. Regardless of the nature of the relationship the soulmate relationship exists by its mere definition… soulmates.
Many people call us who are currently involved in soulmate relationships or who have recently ended soulmate relationships. They are seeking clarity for issues that present themselves during the course of the soulmate relationship. These problems, issues and crises you have with your soulmate, however, are by definition the very reason you are having the soulmate relationship. Sometimes it can cause a break in the soulmate relationship so each of you can go and learn what needs to be learned as stated in your soulmate agreement or soulmate contract. Being in a break period from your soulmate can be very difficult. You can feel a great deal of pain which you will more than likely define as suffering. Being separated from your soulmate can create a great deal of anxiety which we call Soulmate Separation Anxiety.
It is your job and challenge, if you are truly living from the perspective of your eternal soul, to work through that Soulmate Separation Anxiety and stay in your power. It could just be a period of time needs to pass so that you can each learn your respective life lessons individually before the soulmate relationship can continue. Separations from your soulmate, once you have found them, are the greatest opportunities for spiritual growth. Unfortunately we do not learn spiritual lessons when things are going great in our lives, well most of us don’t because we are not highly evolved enough. Sadly we learn through pain, like learning how to not touch the stove because it will burn. Pain brings growth, emotionally and spiritually. If you are in a break from your soulmate, learn the lesson you need to learn and you have a greater potential for the soulmate relationship to come back together.
And be patient! Sometimes it can take a long time for the soulmates to come back together, but it is all part of the process. I have seen many soulmate breakups reconnect 10, 15, 20 years later to produce wonderful long lasting relationships. The truth of the matter is that you have no control over it so you might as well be patient anyway. And more than likely, patience (which is one of the most difficult life lessons to learn) is the lesson you are currently experiencing.
More of than not, soulmate breakups are permanent. So to answer my own question from a different perspective, there is not guarantee from God, the Angels, Goddess or soulmate fairies that a soulmate relationship is permanent. For the fortunate few however they can be. I have seen some soulmate relationships that continue for the remainder of their lives. I have some friends who were high school sweethearts, who married very young, and today, 30-years later they are still together. Their soulmate contract with each other indicated that their life lessons encompassed being in a relationship for their entire adult lives. For most of us though, that is simply not to be.
When your soulmate relationship comes to an end it can be a very disruptive experience psychologically, emotionally and even spiritually. It is truly a”Dark Night of the Soul” experience and it will take you some time to get through and work through all the feelings and emotions you have concerning the ending of the relationship. But remember we have to have these dark nights so we can fully embrace and experience the true light!
When you have learned what you contracted to learn with your soulmate and that soulmate agreement or soulmate contract is complete, there is no spiritual need for the relationship to continue. Now I understand you may want it to continue because you do truly feel a deep connection to that person but from the perspective of the evolution of your soul, it is time to move on and grow and evolve in another direction. Personally I have had several soulmate relationships in my lifetime and each one of them brought with it vast experience and insight that has put me in the place that I am today….and I don’t just mean sitting here writing articles about soulmates. Without those soulmate relationships, and the ending of those soulmate relationship, I would be stuck in a life I did not want and did not like.
When soulmate relationships end, people can become very depressed and detached from life. They can stop doing all the things they are supposed to do such as paying bills, going to work, being around family, bathing and cleaning the house. The challenge is to stay in your power and continue to be a productive living, breathing, bathing human. Try to stop this from sending you into a downward spiral of obsession and fantasy. Try to see what you learned from it, embrace it, heal from it and move on. This is a time where a soulmate reading with soulmate psychics Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise can help. During a soulmate reading specifically focused on you, they will be able to see whether your soulmate relationship is on hiatus or truly finished. They will always be honest with you concerning your soulmate dilemmas and help you find the strength and grace to get through the break or break-up.
For More on this topic see Soulmate Breakups, Will You Always Get Back Together
Soulmate breakups can not always lead to a reunion. You can get back together, but it really depends on what is written in your soulmate contract. There are no guarantees, expressed or implied from God, the Universe, the Angels, whomever … that a soulmate relationship is destined to be together for ever. Unfortunately, due to Hollywood, cheap romance novels and the New Age movement, there has been a definite overt romantic association on soulmates and soulmate relationships without a full comprehension of what they really are. Relationships are for a season, a reason or a lifetime, soulmate relationships included.
If you are contracted to be together for your lifetime, if this was something you and your soulmate agreed to in your soulmate agreement, you more than likely will be. So even after several soulmate breakups, you will still reunite to be together because that is part of your soulmate contract. But you could have also contracted to just be with your soulmate for an express reason, to learn a life lesson of great importance to you for future relationships that come into your life. Then again, you could have just made a contract with that soulmate to have them in your life for a season, a period of time, for a year or so and then move on. Either way, the soulmate relationship will be one of great joy, great passion, great experiences and then great life lessons as you each fulfill with that other soul the reasons you wrote in your life blueprints and soulmate contracts to meet, spend time together and evolve.
For example, I know a lady who met a soulmate while she was married to a somewhat abusive, emotionally distant man. The soulmate was also married at the time. Their relationship was so connected they woke each other up in the middle of the night thinking about each other even though they were miles apart from each other. They knew it was destiny, fate and karma that had brought them together because he had just move from halfway around the world to work on a project at her company she was also involved in. They spent a lot of time together and although neither had an affair before, they had one. The connection was incredible and they fell in love. It was six months of pure bliss.
And then it happened. He made a big mistake that cost him his job and was forced to move far away. They had to separate and it was very difficult for both of them. They devised a plan to allow them to be together, each deciding to leave their spouse. She went first and went through the process of telling her husband she was leaving. She moved out and got an apartment on her own. Her soulmate changed his mind and decided to stay with his wife and told her he could never ever speak with her again. Talk about devastation. It was hard on her for two years but she moved through it and today she looks back and realizes the purpose of the soulmate contract with this guy was to give her the strength she needed to move out of a miserable marriage. He did finally leave his wife but heard through the grapevine she was getting married to someone else, which was not true by the way, but that is the Universe intervening to support the soulmate contract agreement. He was in her life for a reason and he fulfilled it. Now he is married to someone else.
When you meet your soulmate, you really enjoy the bond, the connection, the closeness and the intimacy the two of you share. Life is great! You are happier than you have ever been in your life. You are soaring on the wings of love, literally, well at least you think you are. And then without fail something happens. After the initial period of perpetual togetherness, bliss, harmony and wonderful romantic sex-filled nights, BOOM!! It happens. There is a break, a break-up or one of you puts on the brakes in your soulmate relationship. Either you or your soulmate have hit that Soulmate Crisis Point where one of you has to leave the relationship for a period of time, or permanently, to focus on something or someone else. It happens. It is life. It is a soulmate relationship. And without fail, after watching these relationships for over 25-years, one of you, will have to break the soulmate bond.
When a soulmate leaves your life it can be very painful because you are so connected to them. But only through separation from your soulmate does the soul truly grow. Unfortunately we learn through pain. We never seem to learn valuable lessons when everything is going great in our lives, although I am sure there are some situations where this is so. Like a kid burning their hand on the stove to learn not to touch it, we will learn and grow spiritually through soulmate relationships when the soulmate leaves.
How do you navigate through the pain of the soulmate leaving? This is where you must learn to detach, let go and focus on yourself. We realize this is easier said than done, because it seems impossible to breathe when you no longer have that connection to the soulmate. We know and understand what you are going through. But get through it you must because that is the challenge and more than likely defined in your soulmate contract because it gives you the opportunity for the spiritual growth you need in your life. It is how you work through the soulmate separation anxiety that is true challenge and we agree it is very difficult.
You are probably filled with a great deal of despair, agony, countless hours of crying, talking endlessly with your friends to see if they think the soulmate is coming back into your life. More than likely your friends, because they care deeply for you and want you to be happy again, will tell you to let go and move on, that your soulmate is not coming back or getting back together with you. Remember when they do this it is because they truly have your best interest at heart. Your friends are connected to you and want the best for you. If you really want to know what is going on with your soulmate relationship and whether or not your soulmate break-up is permanent, your best course of action is to have a private soulmate reading with a love psychic, relationship psychic, or soulmate psychic. During your soulmate reading, a soulmate psychic will be able to see if the split from your soulmate is forever. If so, they will need to give you guidance on how to move through this very difficult time in your life. Allowing yourself to dwell on the loss of your soulmate and spend months, and sometimes years, wondering and hoping if you will get back together, Sarah and Sophia, who are also Certified Life Coaches, will be able to help you move on, let go and work through the soulmate separation anxiety you are most certainly experiencing.
If you have received a psychic reading from someone on one of the many readily available psychic networks out there and they told you that you would be together no matter what, please consider a second opinion from Lad Sarah and Sophia Elise. They are highly accurate 5-star master psychics with an emphasis on love, relationship and soulmate situations, specifically soulmate breakups and reunions. They will be able to see the details concerning your soulmate relationship. Soulmate relationships are very near and dear to your heart and when you are in one, and find you have reached the Soulmate Crisis Point, you will need someone to help you navigate through that crisis.
Soulmates split, there are soulmate breakups, they reunite and come back together at times, but not always. What is the outcome for you and your soulmate? Find out today so you can decide what course of action you need to take to get your life back on track while you wait for the return of you soulmate or make preparations to allow a new soulmate to enter your life. Either way, you will win, you may not see it now, but with the help of Sarah and Sophia, YOU WILL WIN.