Anger between soulmates get out of control sometimes. Emotions run high for spiritually connected couples, and they need to learn to deal with conflict.
Soulmates often face a multitude of challenges along their soulmate journey. These situations are really tough, and can bring out the worst in each other. In many cases anger can stem from frustration because one soulmate is disrespecting the other. The connection between them is supposed to be respected, yet many take advantage of it.
Instead of growing and changing, they expect their soulmate to put up with it. It’s easier to have someone accept your bad habits of behavior than to change them. Resisting positive change can cause a lot of anger and fighting in the soulmate’s relationship. Both soulmates are supposed become better versions of themselves and make changes for the better. They are not supposed to allow lower vibration antics.
CHANGE CREATES ANGER BETWEEN SOULMATES
When a soulmate doesn’t create change that would be good for both them and the relationship, their partner can react with different levels of anger. For instance, let’s say a soulmate has to start working less and experience life more. It may not be as easy as it sounds.
A workaholic that is too dedicated to their job may find it difficult to change. They define themselves by their job. It we much easier for them if you just accept the fact they work a lot. It would be easy for them to ignore the life lesson and have you adapt to the status quo.
Even if you’re not a needy, clingy person, you wind up feeling anger towards a soulmate that doesn’t make time for you. You want to spend time with your soulmate and want them to be there for important events. Most people want someone to be available when they really need them. And, that is not too much to ask.
NOT SPENDING TIME TOGETHER
What good is a relationship, even a soulmate relationship, if you don’t get to see one another? It’s one thing if it’s beyond the person’s control. Who can fault someone for things that are out of their control? No one, it is not their choice. But you have the right to be angry if it’s their choice. Rather than compromising, they don’t do a damn thing to spend time with you. It makes sense that someone would feel hurt when they’re a lower priority than someone’s job. Most of us do need a job to support ourselves. We are referring to people who choose to work more than they need to. You want someone to be married to you, not to their job.
So many people contact us when they’re having anger issues with their soulmate. Some fights between soulmates can get pretty heated. The emotional level they operate on, regardless of if the feelings are good or bad, runs very high. Even little things can bring out a boatload of anger between soulmates.
Sometimes soulmates use anger to sabotage a soulmate relationship.
Instead of working through their fears, they lash out in anger, or even end the soulmate relationship for stupid reasons. We all know what a deal breaker in a relationship should be, like cheating, for instance. But that you said something minor that they took the wrong way? That is soulmate sabotage.
They pretend to be angry enough about something to end things with a soulmate when they’re just looking for an excuse. Sometimes a separation is just what the couple needs. In most cases soulmate separations are only temporary. Part of the good that can come from them is that the anger between the couple can dissipate. The issue is still there, but now they can talk about it like civilized adults. Soulmates don’t always learn their lessons when they are together. The anger between them often gets in the way of resolving their differences. They often learn these lessons apart instead.
Originally posted on 2017-02-14 @ 10:04 pm
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soulmate arguments are usually the worst!