When a soulmate enters your life, something must also exit your life, and theirs as well. A soulmate entering your life brings up certain behaviors, ways of thinking, and lifestyles that have to go. This almost always goes for both soulmates, not just one.
For instance, let’s say you meet your soulmate and you are currently in a bad relationship that should have ended a long time ago. Its pretty obvious what is going to have to exit, isn’t it? It’s not working for you anyway, so you would think it would be easy to let something like that go. The sad thing is that most people fight letting go of what really needs to go. It may be very hard to understand, because it doesn’t make sense, but you would be surprised how hard it is for people to change.
A soulmate enters at pivotal times to make it easier to let go of things that are no longer serving you. We all make excuses in one way or another for doing things we know are not good for us. Soulmates are there to help us get the strength we need to live better lives and make better choices. They are to help us get on a path that would ensure us a happier life. Many people would never make the changes necessary unless a soulmate enters their life. This is why so often soulmates meet when one or both are currently in a relationship.
Self destructive behaviors are another thing that must exit when a soulmate enters your life. Although soulmates do overdo it in the forgiveness department in many cases, they are meant to show their partner a better way. Instead of sinking to their level, they are supposed to lift their soulmate up to theirs, and ultimately rise higher together. Without getting rid of their bad relationship skills and acquiring new ones, that goal will not be achieved.
If one or both soulmates are workaholics, they don’t really have time for a relationship. They are too busy focusing on their careers and living a life that sacrifices love for their career goals. When a soulmate enters their life, their workaholic lifestyle has to exit the picture. They have to make time for their soulmate and put an appropriate amount of time and energy into the relationship. It is not up to their soulmate to accept them being a workaholic and put up with them have little or no time for them. It doesn’t mean you have to give up your career goals or quit your job, it is about maintaining a balance. Having a balanced life affects all areas in your life in a positive way. When your life is off balance, everything suffers.
So if you are hoping to meet your soulmate, you must be ready, willing and able. Also keep in mind you are going to have to let go of something in order for the relationship to be happy and healthy.