Soulmate Relationships Test Your Sanity

Soulmate relationships can really make someone believe they are losing their sanity. Countless people we speak to believe they have completely lost their minds or are in the process of losing them. They share with us all the details about the way they feel and think about their soulmate, and literally believe they are losing their sanity.

They tell us how they can’t stop thinking about their soulmate and fear they are bordering on soulmate obsession. The feelings they have for their soulmate defy all logic. Upon initial meeting, the feelings for a soulmate are immediate and so strong they seem impossible to believe. They find themselves acting in strange and unusual ways, tolerating behaviors they would deem unacceptable in mundane romantic relationships. They should have run out of chances a long time ago, but for some crazy reason, they are given chance after chance.

So what is it about soulmate relationships that can make people do, feel and think the craziest things?

A soulmate connection makes people feel things they never felt before. Those feelings can often make them behave in ways they never thought possible. It is easy to think your sanity is questionable when you barely recognize yourself anymore. You may have been one to set and enforce boundaries. Now you are afraid to create and enforce boundaries with your soulmate. What you were strong enough to do in other relationships you are afraid to do in a soulmate relationship.

Soulmate Relationships Test Your Sanity

Soulmate Relationships Test Your Sanity

You are intelligent enough to know what you should do. You are smart enough to recognize bad behavior. The problem is you are not using your intelligence as much anymore. Your emotions have taken over all aspects of your logical mind.

Many people think the emotion of love causes them to do crazy insane things with their soulmate. Wrong. It may seem like love, but it is really coming from fear. You may believe you are letting your soulmate get away with so much because of the strength of the soulmate connection or the unconditional love you have for them. That is shifting the blame outside yourself. It isn’t love or the connection, it is your fear preventing you from doing what you know is right.

You are afraid to put your foot down because you are afraid they will leave. That is what it all boils down to. The soulmate connection didn’t make you call your soulmate after a fight that was all their fault. You were afraid they wouldn’t call you. When you let fear dictate your behavior and thoughts you are not thinking clearly. Now your thoughts and behaviors become as wacky as your soulmate’s.

And wonder why your soulmate relationship is a dysfunctional mess? What else could it be? When it gets to a point where the relationship is testing your sanity it is time to get your emotions in check. Start thinking about what you know instead of what you are afraid of. If you know things have to change then begin changing yourself. Look at how you played a part in what has been created. Begin to do what you know is right and healthy for a relationship, and stop making excuses based on fear. When you do that, you begin to bring sanity back into your soulmate relationship.

5 Comments

  1. Ive been apart from mine for a year now , and i can relate to this. Ive been told we are soulmates , and to be honest ive never felt this way before.

  2. In deed, I once thought I was out of my mind. Unfortunately, I am in a relationship and he is as well. It is a toucher inside me cause I fight it so much almost everyday. I try to be positive with the relatioship am in, but, strong feelings for my soulmate comes up from nowhere and take over my heart desires! I find it ilogical an totally insane!!

  3. I broke up with my soulmate recently and it feels like I am dying. I have never had a bigger hole in my heart than I do right now. I feel so helpless and full of despair and everything makes me cry. I never understood why I felt like this for this person who I never got to meet in person but was so insanely in love with since the first day we met. I would put up with him having a girlfriend and me being the second best which I would never in a million years do. I am completely in love with him and I want so much to not feel this way anymore but it is impossible for me. To heal I have been meditating, trying very hard to cleanse my soul of him but it feels so permanent and so irreversible. What I would do to be with him does not make any sense to me. I have never ever in my life felt so strongly for a stranger who broke my heart into a million pieces.

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