Soulmate rejection is a pretty common occurrence, contrary to popular belief. There are a few reasons why soulmate rejection occurs, and we will get into those, along with how to deal with them individually.
One of the main reasons soulmate rejection occurs is because of the overwhelming flood of emotions that come with encountering one’s soulmate. No matter how prepared you think you are for a soulmate, you never really are. These emotions defy all logistical thought, and at some point (almost always) one, if not both, soulmates battle between their logic and their feelings.
Yes, they feel like they have known their soulmate forever, but they know that isn’t true. So how can that feeling be real, if it isn’t true? The feeling is real but the battle between logic and emotion begins. You can flip back and forth, but at some point you have to pick a team. Sure, you know that you felt an intense stirring of emotions right away with this person, but you just met them. Are you going crazy? It should take a while to begin to fall in love with someone, shouldn’t it?
You can’t believe you have such strong ties to another person, much less someone who you have not known for a long time. It is easy to reject and deny the feelings you have and the bond you have because it simply does not make logical sense. Emotions are not known for being logical all the time, especially with soulmates. So the initial soulmate rejection is initially a rejection of emotions.
If you are going through this yourself, as in rejecting your own feelings and the connection, you have to first and foremost stop trying to have it make sense. It won’t make sense. It is what it is. If you know what you feel (and how can you not?) and you know it is different and unique, then that should be all that you need.
As for your partner, they may reject YOU, as in push you away because they are rejecting their connection and feelings for you. That does not mean they do not have them, no matter what they say. The worst thing you could do at this point is try to convince them. It is not your job and will almost always make things worse. As hard as it is, you have to let them get through this on their own. They cannot break the connection any easier than you could, so let go of your fear. They can run from their soulmate but they cannot hide, and at some point they will have to deal with it. Give them that time.
Another reason soulmate rejection occurs is because you, or your soulmate, are not single. Often soulmates enter each others lives to show them they have to end relationships that are no longer working for them. Instead of doing what they should have a long time ago, and ending that bad relationship, they end the soulmate relationship. This can be devastating to the other soulmate.
In this case, the wisest thing to do is again, let them be for now. Let them live with their choice and make them take a good hard look at what they are missing (their soulmate) and see clearly the problems in their bad relationship. Once your eyes have been opened to what could be with a soulmate, you can’t go back to normal. They can try but it is an exercise in futility. You (or they) know better now, and you can’t fool yourself for much longer. Let them end what they should have a long time ago without you. Let them return to you without their baggage and all the nonsense that goes with it. If they need help, they will let you know, if they don’t, LEAVE THEM ALONE.
Another reason for soulmate rejection is when one, or both, of the soulmates refuses to learn their lessons. They attempt to destroy and reject what is good and pure about their connection. They won’t commit, they sabotage the relationship, basically they do everything in their power to prove that they don’t feel the same way you do, or that you feel more than they do. They don’t. It is a lie, but they want you to believe it. If this is happening to you, it is time to call their bluff. If you have to give them space to save your sanity and the relationship, then do it. If you have to suppress your desire to show them how you feel then do so. Force them to show you that they feel the same way you do by hiding your emotions, by words and actions.
These are a few common reasons why soulmate relationships experience rejection. It is not the end of the world if you have faced this rejection, and certainly not always the end of your relationship either.