How Do I Know I have Met My Soulmate?
If you are really wondering and questioning whether or not you have met your romantic soulmate, especially if it is the person you are currently dating, chances are you have not. Out of all my years of experience with soulmates and soulmate readings, one thing stands firm… if you are in or have been in a romantic soulmate relationship, you will probably know it early on in the relationship. Actually you will probably know it at the point of meeting that soulmate because it will be and electrifying moment for both of you.
When soulmates meet on the earthly plane, it very often comes with a mystical, cosmic experience. There is an instant spark, a flare and immediate attraction between you. You each feel the intensity but probably in different ways. You may feel that they are the only person in the room while everyone else around you seems to melt away into a void because the energy in front of you is the only thing that matters at that time. Some people may like to call this ‘love at first time’ but esoterically it is a much deeper experience. It is the soul recognition between you reaching their check-point and saying to each other “Oh there you are, I have been looking for you and glad you finally found your way into my life. Let’s get this show on the road!” It is a feeling of coming home or even feeling as if you know this person already or that you have met before. And you have, just not in this life time.
There is a recognition on the soul level, perhaps of a shared past life or time together on the other side or the sharing in the soulmate contract or soulmate agreement. Your ego will not be aware of these things at the time, however, because all you know at the time is how intensely you are attracted to this person. More than likely you have shared many lifetimes together and there is a feeling of comfort and contentment in being in the presence of this energy that feels so familiar. And you can’t quite put your finger on it, but there is just something about them that resonates with your soul. Of course, at the initial meeting, you have no idea of the karmic life lessons or changes that are about to manifest in your life as a result of meeting this person who will become a challenging karmic relationship, but you will find out in time.
The beginning of a soulmate relationship can be a whole lotta fun! You have so much in common, probably liking the exact same weird shade of blue, favorite music, authors, grandmothers first names and birthdays or whatever else you decide between the two of you further defines your connection. Whatever it is, it will be something, and if it is not readily apparent to you, the two of you will more than likely make something up to show to the rest of the world that you are truly ‘connected’ in this great cosmic way. You have long talks and spend hours on the phone going over all the connected pieces between you, you spend a lot of time together, you think each others thoughts and complete each others sentences, and truly believe you have reached a state of perpetual bliss as you turn all your focus upon the one you perceive is “The One”. You have mind-blowing tantric sex and you just can’t get enough of each other. You talk about the future, you make plans for a future and do this really too early on in the relationship but throwing caution to wind is ok in your mind in this situation because fate has brought you together and you are destined to be united. As a matter of fact you might even neglect a lot of other responsibilities and people in your life because the only thing that matters to you is the soulmate relationship and the ‘connection’.
Now if it is not a romantic soulmate you are wondering about but a soulmate relationship with a friend, family member, co-worker or pet, those connections tend to develop over a longer period. When friends meet and form a strong bond it is usually a kindred spirit kind of connection because you share a lot of similarities in terms of background, belief structure, likes and dislikes and life in general. Over time though as that friendship deepens and you become closer and more connected, it evolves into a soulmate kind of friendship where you could be able to feel each other and almost communicate telepathically. This is the kind of soulmate relationship I have with my best friend. Once I was working out in the yard on a hot August afternoon trying to save some trees that someone had discarded at the end of their driveway, leaving them for the garbage men. I dug very large holes and then planted the very heavy very tall Junipers into the ground. It was hard, hot, sweaty work. And that is the point. I was unaware of how much I was sweating and the next thing I knew my friend was standing over me with Gatorade saying.. “I just had a feeling something was wrong and that you needed Gatorade.” Later she shared with me that it was just a weird intuition she had that I was in danger and needed help although she had no idea what I was doing outside in the heat by myself, because I had not told her. Today we know when each of us are thinking of the other. If I think about her for a minute or so and contemplate calling her, my phone rings and she says to me… “what do you want, I have been feeling you for about 2 minutes.” So the friendship kind of soulmate relationships are there you just may not realize it at immediate meeting.
If you wonder if your current romantic relationship is a soulmate connection you may want to consider a soulmate reading from a soulmate psychic who specializes in love, romance, relationships and soulmate issues. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are both experienced, ethical, accurate psychics who specialize in love, relationships and soulmate. Together they have over 50 years experience providing soulmate readings and relationship guidance and advice to people from all over the globe. Known for their integrity and easy manner, you will always receive honest answers to your soulmate questions as well as practical steps on how to improve the relationship or let go of it if it is time to move on. Soulmate relationships can be rewarding but they can also be very challenging and complicated. Sarah and Sophia will bring clarity for both you and your soulmate relationship during your soulmate reading and give you the answers you need for the ultimate evolution of your soul.