Doing the wrong things for a soulmate can do detrimental things to your relationship. Most people don’t purposely set out to do the wrong things for their soulmate. When you would do anything for your soulmate, you’d be surprised how many of those things are actually wrong for them, you, and the relationship.
A soulmate relationship has a sacred connection. It does not give the two of you the freedom to act out and disrespect one another. It does not give you an excuse to enable one another and prevent each other from learning and growing. There is a tendency to excuse infractions between couples because they love one another. There is even a greater tendency to excuse minor and major infractions between soulmates. They feel the connection they have gives them a get out of jail free card, and the only excuse they will ever need.
For instance, one soulmate treats the other badly and believes they will always be forgiven because they are soulmates. The other one feels they have to put up with the bad behaviors because of the soulmate connection. This is the wrong thing on both ends. This is not what the universe wanted for you. This is not how the universe expected you to treat the gift they have given you, and they will not support this kind of behavior.
The expectation was to bring you both to higher levels, not put you both in the sewer. You may blame a sense of powerlessness because of your connection, when in fact your connection should make you more powerful. It is the choices you make that allow your connection to be strong one and not a weak one.
It is really hard to do the right thing, but the right things get positive results. Doing the wrong things for a soulmate creates negative results, and things get worse and worse. You will know when you are doing the wrong things for your soulmate because you will feel weakened, not strengthened by those choices. You will also be making those choices not from a place of love, but from a place of fear. So when your soulmate mistreats you and disrespects your connection, don’t sweep it under the rug. Don’t expect two wrongs to make a right, because they won’t. Don’t let your soulmate drag you down to a lower level. Keep your standards high.
Don’t think your relationship is meant to last. It won’t if you and your soulmate keep doing the wrong things. Doing the wrong thing will lead to a separation between the two of you. It could either be a temporary separation, or a long-term one. You and your soul mate will be responsible for which one it is, by the choices you make. So, when you and your soulmate have an issue, look deep within yourself. You know right from wrong. Don’t allow fear to creep in. Always go with what is right and fair. Your soulmate and your relationship will be all the better for it.
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