Do Soulmates Ever Stop Loving Each Other?
The bond that manifests between soulmates comes from a soul-level connection to another person. When soulmates are connected to the relationship, it provides an incredible, exhilarating feeling. Soulmates spend a lot of time together, talking, texting and making love until the wee hours of the morning. You think each others thoughts and complete each others sentences and relinquish all thoughts of food as the only nourishment you need is the love you share with your partner. Then one day, perhaps without warning, the unthinkable happens. Your soulmate needs to take a break to tend to something else in their life, ends the relationship or decides for their own personal reasons to terminate the soulmate contract the two of you share.
After weeks, months and even years of living with this wonderful connection, it is gone. After experiencing such a powerful connection, it can be extremely painful, frustrating and depressing to go through soulmate separations and endings. Sometimes it is just a break that needs to be taken before continuing the relationship. Other times the break is a permanent one. In cases where the relationship between soulmates is ending, it quite often can take years to work through the emotions when losing this unusually close spiritual union. You may feel as if you can never love again. You may feel that you will be alone for the rest of your life. And in truth, neither of these situations is the truth, it just feels like it for a period of time.
Once you have worked through the difficult emotions you will start to feel your old self emerging. Only then are you ready to address what you will do with the love you felt toward your soulmate. And there you find it deep within your heart. LOVE. The love you feel toward this person who was so close to you but now is gone is still there. Not the same intense love you felt when the two of you were together, but a love that feels comfortable when you remember the times you shared. Even though you are no longer together you still feel, and will probably always feel, a closeness, a bond and a connection to that soulmate.
True relationships between soulmates are based on unconditional love. When we love someone without condition, it means that we love them. Period. We don’t love them because of what they will do for us, for what they give us, and at times, we accept they may not reciprocate our love. We love them in spite of their character flaws and behavior patterns, that in others, we would find totally intolerable. We love them purely for loves’ sake because of the soulmate connection and because we have loved them through all our incarnations and lives to come.
So the short answer to the question is No. Soulmates do not stop loving each other, but the love changes form. The intensity of love will subside as time heals, and be replaced by a fond, loving memory of the life experiences shared, moments treasured and life lessons learned. Even though the ending of a soulmate relationship can be quite devastating, you will find your strength again as you work through your emotions and find your peace. Once you do, and you are safely on the other side, you will see the sun again. Then you will be able to clearly see, know and appreciate why you had this soulmate relationship in your life. You will have grown, evolved and shifted your consciousness. You will have come through the fire and survived.
And so, you will finally be able to look back at that soulmate with gratitude for the changes they brought into your life. You will have assimilated that transformation into the core of your being. You are a stronger, better person and although the road was not easy, you will look back with LOVE. Love between soulmates is eternal. Loves between soulmates lasts forever. It may be in a different form but that love will be there until this lifetime ends and the next one begins and the soulmates find each other again.