How you lost your dignity with your soulmate? Has the connection between the two of you caused you to behave in a manner that is less than dignified? Have you allowed feelings for your soulmate to cloud your judgment and to allow disrespect and unhealthy behavior in your relationship? Do you look at your soulmate relationship and wonder where your self-respect went? When your soulmate acted out and treated you horribly what did you do? Did you let them know you will not tolerate that kind of treatment and show them behave in a dignified manner? Or, did you allow this unfair treatment, with barely a consideration on their other than listening to you talk about it? If you did, you let your dignity go.
When the punishment does not fit the crime, and you constantly let someone off easily, you cannot keep your dignity in the process. Furthermore, if you accept punishments from your soulmate that you don’t deserve, you are again doing your self-respect a disservice. Self esteem comes from yourself. Even is someone does not treat you with dignity, that doesn’t affect your dignity. When you allow someone to treat you badly, it negatively impacts your dignity. It all comes from you. It is up to you to preserve both your dignity and self-respect. No one can take it from you, you must give it away. So stop giving it away, it isn’t doing you or the soulmate relationship any good.
The Universe did not put you two together for them to treat you horribly and for you to accept it. Sorry, that decision made between you and your soulmate. The Universe gave you the connection to use for the good of your relationship, not to undermine both of you in the process. What you do with your connection is on you. So, if your soulmate relationship is chaos, stop feeding into it. Step back, and let your soulmate spin out of control by themselves. Don’t let them pull you into the tornado. Preserve your dignity instead.
When your soulmate is ready to rise to a higher level, deal with them at that point. Stop following them down the rabbit hole and expect to find normalcy. Stop using your soulmate connection as an excuse to throw your dignity away. If your soulmate does not treat you with dignity, they don’t have any themselves. You have a chance to teach your soulmate a lesson about dignity, and how to nourish their own and yours. You also have a chance to join them by losing your own dignity along with them. And how could that bring a positive result to a relationship? It can’t, so don’t do it.
Neither of you should allow others to disrespect your relationship. But, if you and your soulmate are acting undignified towards one another, how can anyone else treat your relationship with respect? They will all just think you two are in a dysfunctional relationship. Because without both of you holding on to your dignity, that is exactly what kind of relationship you will be in.
Don’t feel you have to be with one another 24/7 at the expense of your own individual goals and dreams. You can have time for yourselves and have some separate goals. You don’t have to make their life your priority all the time either. Your life has to matter to. You don’t have to agree on everything and have the same opinions of everything. You can disagree or see things differently, and have your own voice. That is how people with dignity behave. That is how healthy couples behave.