Breaking the soulmate connection can be a very difficult process but it can be done if you set your mind, heart and soul to the task. The soulmate connection, and soulmate relationships, are formed from a very deep soul level connection with another human being. These soulmate connections as they are formed and deepen over the time we spend with that soulmate become a part of us and part of our own soul so creating a termination to that bond can be a fairly painful process. Staying in the soulmate relationship, however, can also be painful, if the relationship has become unbearable and dysfunctional so you may need to consider which will produce the greatest personal growth, not for your soulmate, but for YOU.
So why exactly would you want to disconnect your soulmate connection? Perhaps you recognize, either from your own internal knowing or from guidance delivered to you in a soulmate reading, that it is time to end the soulmate relationship and move on to the next phase of your life. On the other hand, perhaps the soulmate relationship, and the soulmate lessons that come with it, are too painful for you at this particular time in our life and you need to disconnect for your own well-being and happiness. Maybe you realize you need to temporarily break the soulmate connection to work through some of your own issues that have surfaced from your soulmate contract as a result of having this soulmate relationship in your life; you know the only way to make that happen is to create a break for the time being. Whatever your own personal situation or story, creating the soulmate disconnection will take some effort on your part and should not be considered an easy task.
Before breaking the soulmate connection, we urge everyone to examine their personal motives for doing so and to make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. Are you doing it to truly disconnect yourself from a situation you feel is no longer serving you and your own personal growth? Are you doing it because you recognize the soulmate contract is complete and there is no longer any reason to have this soulmate relationship in your life? Or are you doing it to try to create a reaction or response from your soulmate because they are not acting or behaving in the way you want or need them to? If you have had a soulmate reading and have been told you need to disconnect from the soulmate relationship for a period of time, creating the soulmate crisis point, so your soulmate can get their act together. Whatever the reason, please make sure you are doing it for the best and highest good of your soul and your own personal growth.
Once you have decided to breaking the soulmate connection you should probably fortify yourself with the resolve to cease all communication with the soulmate. This means phone calls, texting, Facebook, Twitter, email, smoke signal and all other forms of communication including meditations. All of these communication mediums if activated will only serve to keep that soulmate connection alive. You may also choose to do a little ceremony, or ritual, where you put everything reminding you of your soulmate into a box or bag that you bind with black ribbon or wrap in black paper. There are some who may even suggest to toss that in the garbage or bury it, but I say to just put it up on a shelf somewhere because one day, when your heart and soul have healed, you might be able to cherish the soulmate memories and the life lessons they brought. If you are concerned the soulmate may still try communicate with you and keep the connection alive, you may also want to do a cord cutting ritual where you can physically unplug your soulmate from your energy and being able to connect with you psychically, spiritually or on the astral planes. To do the cord cutting, lie down and take your right hand, starting at the top of your head where the crown chakra is and slowing bring it down over your head, throat, heart, solar plexus and down to your root chakra all the while asking the Divine to remove your connection to your soulmate. For particularly strong connections you may want to do this exercise more than once. You DO NOT need to pay anyone to do this for you nor do you need to pay anyone for aura cleansing, spiritual cleansing or anything else – you can do it yourself because your own emotion in doing so will be much stronger than paying someone hundreds or thousands of dollars to do so.
Creating a soulmate disconnection will not happen overnight. It is something that will take time. It could take months, even years, to completely disconnect from a soulmate energy, so be gentle with yourself. Again, just as working on yourself is the best way to draw the soulmate energy to you, working on yourself is the best way to disconnect the soulmate energy that is no longer serving your or your life path in a positive way. More than likely your soulmate will feel the disconnection and dissolution of your energy and will try to contact you to reel you back into their life. They will feel uncomfortable without the connection to you and the energy flow that was feeding them. When they communicate with you, if you have decided to break the soulmate connection, this will provide an exercise in setting boundaries with your soulmate if you are at that place where you know communication and contact with them will be to hard for you.
You may decide you want to tell them in advance you are breaking the soulmate connection and that further contact from them will not be accepted. On the other hand, you may just decide to go quiet on your soulmate because having the conversation to end the soulmate contract may just be too painful for you. However and whatever you decide, it will take courage and strength on your part to end this contract.
Honor yourself. Take walks. Commune with nature. Spend time with your friends. Read. Meditate. Focus on you again because more than likely the soulmate relationship robbed you of much of your own personal time and it is time for you to connect with YOU again.